“I know there's going to be that one person: 'Well, I played football and I never did that,’” Boulware said after Wilkins’ intimate incident. Wilkins’ teammate, Ben Boulware, made my point before I did. In Wilkins’ case, that spilled out onto the field in front of a national television audience, a moment of blunt honesty. This doesn’t make the athletes “gay” per se, it means they are human. With mostly fit, athletic bodies, male athletes come together naked in the locker room, at the very least taking careful notice of the naked bodies next to them.
Sports are the ultimate test case for all of that. Today, men in particular are forced to “choose” between being gay and being straight (despite what I personally believe to be the preponderance of bisexuality among humans). In ancient Greece and Rome, homosexual conduct was just your run-of-the-mill Tuesday visit to the bath house or trist with acquaintances.
Long before there ever was “gay,” this is what men did. None of this makes any of the participants “gay.” Truly. They paint graphic pictures for their teammates of them having sex (with a woman, of course always with a woman).ĭon’t believe me? Just ask Anthony Davis. They talk explicitly about what they do sexually, what they like. They roughhouse naked in the locker room. They measure themselves against other men. Men of all sexual orientations look at each other’s penises in the shower. What might be deemed “gay” in West Hollywood or the Castro is just your average afternoon post-practice ritual for so many straight guys completely comfortable with their own bodies and the bodies of their teammates and opponents. Of course it’s more than that.īut what gets so often lost is that the opposite is also true: Grabbing another guy’s nether regions is about a lot more than being “gay” (so please, forgive the shorthand). I’ve been out for 20-plus years and with my husband for exactly 62.963% of that time. Of course being gay is a lot more than grabbing another guy’s nether regions. Some people chuckled at the grabby player “getting caught ” Others were horrified and sounded the “sexual assault” alarm.įor me it was just straight athletes going gay. “I will be writing to these companies asking what measures they have in place to keep children safe from harm, including verifying their age,” Wright told The Sunday Times.When a video close-up of Clemson defensive lineman Christian Wilkins grabbing the ass and genitals of an opposing Ohio State player surfaced last weekend, it got a panoply of reaction.
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He told the paper that the government would consider new legislation requiring porn to use age verification technology to stop those below 18 from using dating apps from April.
Responding to The Sunday Times‘ investigation, culture secretary Jeremy Wright said the findings were “truly shocking” and provided “yet more evidence that online tech firms must do more to protect children.” Gay hook-up app Grindr. “We encourage users to report improper or illegal behaviour either within the app or directly via email to addition, our team is constantly working to improve our digital and human screening tools to prevent and remove improper underage use of our app.” “Grindr is committed to creating a safe and secure environment to help our community connect and thrive, and any account of sexual abuse or other illegal behaviour is troubling to us as well as a clear violation of our terms of service,” the spokesperson said. Culture secretary says sexual abuse of children on apps like Tinder and Grindr is “shocking”Ī Grindr spokesperson told PinkNews that it is “saddened” by The Sunday Times’ investigation and that the dating app was taking steps to remove underage users. The paper received FOI responses from 10 out of the UK’s 46 police forces.